It’s easy to throw in the teetotal towel in the early days of alcohol-free living because it takes a while to adjust to a new way of being. Human beings are incredibly adaptable but we do need a bit of time to get used to a different pace of life. Binge drinking tends to bring with it a chaotic existence and despite the alcohol-induced dramas being destructive and upsetting and something most people are desperate to leave behind, ‘normal’ life can seem a little slow in comparison when you finally put down the bottle.
This picture is of my 11-month-old, Lily Jean. She is just learning to eat finger foods and is not (how shall I put this?) approaching the new meal format with enthusiasm. It would be hasty and somewhat ridiculous of me to assume that on the basis of how she handled her fruit selection today (alternating between throwing it at the dog whilst giggling maniacally and staring at it as though I had scraped it off my shoe prior to serving it up) she will never enjoy eating finger foods.
However, after years of heavy drinking, it can feel as though we will never adjust to a new, sober and non-dramatic lifestyle and many of us decide to return to old (and problematic) habits before we have given ourselves a real chance to change.
If you have recently become a non-drinker, try to ride those tempting storms of alcohol cravings and remind yourself that you will eventually adapt to, and enjoy, life without alcohol. It might just take a while longer than you had initially hoped…
I am on day 4. I finally hit rock bottom on Friday. With the help of Jason Vale and Soberistas I am on track. I know it will not be an easy path but I want to be sober more than I want that first drink. I am in the process of reading back through your blog and I like the idea of visualising through to the end of the night of the first drink. That takes me to a dark place that I don’t want to go any more.
Thank you Lucy for helping me see the light.
Lou x
Hi Lou, thanks for your comment. It really means a lot that you are finding my blogs and Soberistas helpful. I hope you are feeling ok today, and looking forward to a great new way of living that doesn’t involve alcohol. For anyone reading this who is considering giving up alcohol, I can honestly say it was the best decision I ever made, by a long shot.
Keep on track, and keep in touch. Lucy x
Another great blog Lucy!! I wholeheartedly agree, it’s definately worth sticking with and getting used to living your new life … and believe me, anybody who is thinking about getting sober … it’s a completely new life and also a much better and a very lovely one. I can honestly say that after just 5 months of living a sober life, staying away from that first drink has now become very easy for me … it’s definately that first one that does the damage as I could never stop at “just the one”.
Susan xx
Susan! Great to hear from you – so pleased that you are doing great and now on your 6th month – brilliant! It is a completely new way of living isn’t it, but so much better and happier. Thanks for your comment and stay in touch won’t you? Lots of love, Lucy x
Agree with your thoughts. I believe we can do wo alcohol though m a social drinker. Cute pic of ur nephew:)
Cheers
Vishal
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Thanks for your comment! Good to hear from you. Lucy x
ps. the baby is my daughter!!
oh! M so sorry bout mistaking dear daughter 4 nephew. accept apologies:)
Ha ha no worries! She has just had a haircut and it’s quite short/boyish. 🙂